When Love and Hate Collide by Def Leppard

This is one rock ballad I consider to be a classic. I know there’s a version of Taylor Swift doing a collab with Def Leppard on this, but I still like Def Leppard rocking this song by themselves. The love and the pain just shows when Def Leppard does this song by themselves.

You could have a change of heart, if you would only change your mind
Instead of slamming down the phone girl, for the hundredth time
I got your number on my wall, but I ain’t gonna make that call
When divided we stand baby, united we fall

When lovers and/or friends get into an argument, it’s only natural that they show anger, that they refuse to talk to each other. But is that a really good thing to do.

Got the time got a chance gonna make it
Got my hands on your heart gonna take it
All I know I can’t fight this flame

Yeah, sure. Be angry. But let it cool down. Make time to talk about matters. Time doesn’t heal all wounds if you don’t make an effort to talk. There is a reason why people fight, and it’s stupid to just let time take care of it. You need to take care of it yourselves.

You could have a change of heart, if you would only change your mind
Cause I’m crazy ’bout you baby, time after time

If you truly care about each other, don’t hold on to the anger. Don’t focus on the pain. Breathe. Relax. Cool down. Then talk. Control your anger and pain. Don’t let these emotions control you.

Without you
One night alone Is like a year without you baby
Do you have a heart of stone
Without you
Can’t stop the hurt inside
When love and hate collide

There’s a time and a place and a reason
And I know I got a love to believe in
All I know got to win this time

Keep in mind that you are not at war with each other. Try to remember why you’re getting frustrated. It’s because you don’t want to ruin the relationship, right? So fight to keep it alive. Your opponent is not each other. The goal is to win over the situation.